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I've learned so much by listening to your podcast since I found it.
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I wish I'd had it to listen to 20 some odd years ago.
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Even me that has been with court reporters for years did not realize the extent of the decisions that you have to make all the time until I listened to your podcast.
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Court reporters hold one of the most important roles in the justice system.
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We're entrusted with the official records of the courts and we also have to run our own businesses, which is not something most of us were prepared for.
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I'm Bryn Seymour, court reporter and life coach, and I invite you to join the discussion about the problems we face and the solutions we create on the unique journey of a stenographer.
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Welcome to the Entrepreneurial Court Reporter Podcast.
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Hi Bryn, welcome to the Court Reporter Podcast.
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Hi Bryn, how are you?
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I'm great.
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How are?
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you Wonderful, thank you.
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How are you?
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I'm great.
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How are you Wonderful?
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Thank you.
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So excited for this conversation.
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Why don't you introduce yourself, share where you're from and your journey, how you became an attorney, what led you in this way?
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What inspired you?
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Who is Renee Pardo?
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Sure.
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So I, up until a couple of months ago, was a full-time assistant district attorney in Suffolk County, which means I prosecuted criminal cases, felony cases, and was specifically assigned to the Child Abuse and Domestic Violence Bureau.
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That was my last assignment in the office.
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Prior to that, I had most of my experience in family court as a county attorney.
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So a county attorney and a district attorney are two different offices, two different assignments, two different things.
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And I spent the bulk of my time in my career there in family court and I handled their child abuse and neglect cases, as well as juvenile delinquency cases.
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And then, going back even further, I was in private practice for 10 years and I handled all kinds of cases.
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But I started my career well before that, actually, and after school I went to the University of Texas at Austin and then I went to a law school in Houston, south Texas College of Law.
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My first job out of law school was as a prosecutor.
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So I started the same way.
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I finished I was an assistant DA in the Fort Worth Dallas Metroplex, tarrant County, and then I moved to New York because of getting married and that's where my husband was from, and I'd only been a lawyer for two years.
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So the rules between New York and Texas were that if you weren't a lawyer for five years, you had to sit for the bar and start all over.
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So I did so.
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I became a lawyer in New York and then started shortly after moving to New York, moved to Long Island and that's where I started in Suffolk County.
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The majority of the time I was in a courtroom every single day handling cases or handling calendars, and what I really liked doing was speaking in public, and I think that's why I'm more gravitated to things like criminal law and prosecution, because I love being in a courtroom, I love speaking and I didn't enjoy the aspect of my job and certainly didn't want to go into the areas of law where all I would do would be sit and write.
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For instance, I like creative writing, but legal writing was always a challenge for me and not something I loved.
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Yeah.
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Yes, I mean, I always admire now that I work in court, you know seeing all the attorneys present their arguments.
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It's kind of like I didn't realize, because my only other experience with it was seeing it in movies and TV shows, and you don't realize how like nerve wracking it must be, I guess, or how wow, like you, know you have to have a lot of confidence in order to present your case and yeah, it's like public speaking basically Exactly, and I guess that was the thing.
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I never really had a hard time with public speaking.
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I mean, I get nervous all the time still, but I enjoy it, I like it, and so for me that seemed like the place that I would be the most comfortable.
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In the questionnaire that you filled out, you said that you've had major wins and major setbacks, sure in the courtroom, and survived them all.
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So, yes, any funny or embarrassing or crazy story, anything that comes to mind.
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Sure, I think one reason that I was so comfortable is just because I lived through so many things that were terrible and embarrassing and things that happen.
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I think I shared with you when I met you one of the things that happened to me when I was a young prosecutor in New York.
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We were on a summer day and I was working hard on a closing argument and it was summer and I had my suit on and I had my jacket on and at one point we lost air conditioning.
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But we were so close to the end and the jury was sick of everything and it still wasn't too horrible, so we kept going.
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The jury voted to stay and I stood up to do my closing argument.
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So I'm the very end of the case and one of the things we'd been working on was to be more demonstrative.
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It's like when you're saying I've proven this to you, this to you this man is guilty, to turn, point your finger at him, you know, make a big sweeping gesture.
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It was very hot.
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I was in a blouse and a skirt.
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My jacket was off because it was getting very hot in there.
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So all of the lawyers had their jackets off with the judge's permission.
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The judge didn't even have his robe on anymore.
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Like we were hot, we were just let's get it done.
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We've been there for all week.
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And I turned at the very crux of my argument.
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And so, ladies and gentlemen, you need to find.
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And I turned to call him guilty and point, and I felt a little ping at the front.
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My front closure bra opened right there as I'm giving my closing argument.
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Now, I don't know that any, I don't think anyone could see anything.
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But you feel that when all of a sudden, both sides of your bra retreat to different areas of the courtroom, you feel that.
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So I went from making the big sweeping gesture of pointing at him to basically like almost ending the closing argument almost immediately with my arms folded across my chest, going so he's guilty, guilty, guilty, you know.
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And like sat the hell down and wanted to be over like the most mortifying, you know, wardrobe malfunction one can ever have in a courtroom.
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But you know, once you survive something like that, other things happen later on and you're like that's nothing, like I lived through it, so it was okay.
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It was, I remember, and this story was oh my gosh.
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You told this story at our lunch at the we Love Women's Foundation's International Women's History event.
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I mean, it's definitely better in person when you get to see all the theatrical yes, wow, I can't imagine how you must have felt.
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I don't think I talked about it openly for like seven years.
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It's now that I can back and laugh at it.
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But it's just funny and I share that story.
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Now, when I've got people that are, you know, attorneys that I work with, that are afraid to do something, or they they're embarrassed by something that happened in court and I'm like listen, that's nothing, let me tell you they're embarrassed by something that happened in court.
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And I'm like, listen, that's nothing, Let me tell you so it doesn't bother me anymore.
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But yeah, yes, it's really inspiring.
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I guess you know these things happen to attorneys and it would be really interesting to do personality tests on attorneys and like on court reporters too, because we probably were not the ones that were raising our hands in class and answering questions and like we just get to kind of like witness and observe all these things without being in the drama, just observing it.
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So it's, it's interesting to see the difference of personalities.
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It's funny.
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I've known so many court reporters.
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Right, because and as you know and your listeners know right Court reporters can do tons of work where they're not in a courtroom every day.
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But I was used to having a court reporter with me every courtroom I've been in, so I've seen so many different personalities of court reporters too.
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But I guess that's true.
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There would be more possibility that court reporters are more introverted, but it's also the nature of their job to be the fly on the wall, taking everything down.
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Yeah, and I think that can be hard for us too because, like, everybody wants to express themselves to an extent, of course, some more than others, because introverts versus extroverts.
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But I think it is hard when, like we, we have something that we want to say but we can't say it because of the situation.
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Oh yeah, there's probably a lot like bottled up inside that we just want to like let it out.
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And also, even I mean, we do have to have that confidence to be able to say what we need to say when we need to say it, in order to get the record accurate, to clarify certain things, like I always talk about how we only have a split second to make the decision whether to interrupt or not to interrupt, because if we're not going to interrupt, that means we have to figure it out later on, like if we missed something, or if we think we missed something, or if we didn't hear correctly, or we're like not 100 percent sure that kind of puts that burden on us to kind of try to figure that out later.
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So I always talk about how it's important to decide ahead of time that we're going to train ourselves and practice the mindset of being able to confidently interrupt in the moment that we need to, because we literally don't have time to make a decision.
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So the decision has to already be made.
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And then I kind of feel in a way like you know, I should have been worried about that, I should have been thinking about that.
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But what happens is, even though I mean again, I have a very close friend who's a court reporter and from court right, and you know, things would happen and I mean I love her, she's wonderful, she's a close friend, but there would be times we will be in a case really heated and all in the back.
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We come out from the back after being there, you know, arguing, doing whatever we're doing without the litigants, for you know, 30 minutes, whatever we come out to put it on the record, we're all like decided, I start talking, the judge is even talking, and then someone says Jamie's not here, that's my friend, the court reporter.
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I'm like what?
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And that's my good friend?
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And then I'm like oh my, my God, I'm such a jerk.
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I didn't, I didn't even look, I didn't and it.
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But it had nothing to do with her, because that's even someone who's my very good friend.
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I would notice that she's not there.
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But because you're so into the moment and having to make a record of what you want to say and so used to the court reporter being quiet in her place, do I see her could be him doing their, doing their job.
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That's why it doesn't always stand out right away.
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But I don't know how many times that I've had to recreate a record because either me or some other lawyer or the judge came back from being in the back to put everything on the record and did it without getting the court reporter.
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I cannot tell you.
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It happens every day in courtrooms.
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I cannot tell you.
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It happens every day in courtrooms.
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I'm sure you know.
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And then we start over.
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Yeah, it's so funny because it's like you say that the attorneys are so focused on making the record, but if the court reporter is not there, there's no record, right?
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Yeah, I think I've had some brilliant moments without a court reporter present, and it doesn't count.
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Oh my gosh, that's so funny.
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It's like I know it does happen and it's like I always have to remember to make, make it known if I'm stepping out of the room, or because they will forget and they'll just like keep going.
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So I remember.
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Yeah, and we knew we would know because everyone was in the back.
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That court reporter can't sit there the whole time.
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We're in the back, so you know they'll go do whatever they got to do.
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And then somebody has got to go get them and tell them okay, we're finally back on.
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We know what we're going to do now, how we're going to proceed, but it just happens because, particularly if you're in the back, it's usually because you are in the middle of litigating something that you know has been a sticking point and is some problem, and now you've got to make it really clear and that's all you're thinking.
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You're just so tunnel focused or that other attorney has made you so mad.
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You cannot wait to come back out and say what you got to say on the record.
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And it seems so rude, particularly when it's your friend and you didn't notice that she wasn't there.
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I mean, I've had her look at me like really, I'm like, I'm sorry.
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Okay, so share more about how you became friends and how you like.
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What is it that you like about her and her work, whether it's in the transcript or in or it could be any court reporter like anything positive or I guess I'll say positive first and then we'll do the negatives but like that you can point out about a court reporter's work ethic or how they present themselves, or how the transcript is done differently from another one, anything like that that you can point out.
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I will tell you I mean as far as like friendships, point out.
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I will tell you I mean as far as like friendships.
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I don't with respect to like my closest friend that is a court reporter.
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I just became friends with her, not knowing anything about her work, just knowing that this was a wonderful person in the courtroom that I could talk to, who was nice to me.
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My transition when I first came to family court as a county attorney was difficult because I had been used to criminal law.
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I had done stuff on my own at real estate and other stuff, but I'd never done family court work specifically.
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It was different and I met my friend Jamie.
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She'd been in family court for a while so she was just nice and when I would screw something up or say something, she's sitting right there.
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She's like no, it was fine, don't worry.
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This is what happened.
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And she was just a nice person and I didn't.
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In the kind of work we were dealing with in family court I wasn't really necessarily looking at a transcript every day, so I knew nothing about what her work product was, just that she was great in court and she was personable, got along with everybody else, the judge liked her, we all got along, and it's the same thing with the court officers or the people that are there Other attorneys that have to come in and have their keep coming in their cases.
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They'll complain about that because, oh, you talk to her, you're her friend, you know him, but that's home court advantage, as we say.
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I'm the person that's in there every day.
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So, sorry, you should come in and be extra nice to everybody, because this is my home.
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I'm here every day, just like we try to be fair and do everything right.
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But, yes, I know this person and we talk to each other and she'll talk to you too and do whatever you need.
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Just don't be a jerk to her.
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So there was a lot of that.
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But Jamie, for instance, how that came about, was I just.
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She was just a person that I had something in common with, I think even in the beginning.
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There was a time that I was wearing a lot of suits from White House Black Market.
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During a time they sold a lot of suits and my friend Jamie, the court reporter, is quite gorgeous.
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Now, if she ever listens to this, she will be very embarrassed, but she's beautiful and it was.
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I think one day I would.
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I came in and she was wearing the exact same outfit only she's her and looked amazing and I was like, well, now I have to go burn this suit, like I was.
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I think there we were, but it was funny because she was.
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You look so good at it.
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So we had things in common.
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She had two children.
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I had two children.
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Oh, and I can tell you this, whenever we would take a break or whatever, she would come out.
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If she had any food and she'd be like here and feeding me mangoes cut up perfectly, or she'd be bringing me cookies.
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I'm like, what are you doing?
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So you get to be friends with someone that's bringing you food, being very nice and telling you no, that sounded fine, don't worry, I got everything you said.
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So that's how I became friends with her and started to see her outside of the courtroom with other people.
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I mean, just like I get to be friends with another.
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One of my best friends is a clerk in the family court.
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My friend Jen is wonderful and knows I mean I always joke if either of them decided to go to law school they'd be dangerous because they know so much.
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But that's not.
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The law school is the pinnacle.
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They're excellent at their jobs and the courts would not function well without them doing their jobs.
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They're very important jobs.
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To answer the part of your question about what things don't you like or about the transcript, the only time I can ever say I think I mentioned to you.
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We have one court reporter I don't think she's working there anymore, but for years when it would be her turn, her rotation, we affectionately called her the shusher because she constantly shushed us.
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Now I totally get that, especially when attorneys get excited and in family court that happens a lot in criminal court and you talk over each other and there's crosstalk.
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They can't separate it.
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Everyone's going at once, the judge is upset and typically in family court you'll have so many lawyers You've got rather than two parties.
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You've got an attorney for the child, you've got an attorney possibly for both parents and you have the parents Okay, so you can have all these attorneys.
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Then you have the attorneys for the parents, the what they say, the AFC or attorney for child.
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We have everybody who has to take a turn.
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You have the County attorney, or if the County attorney is not the same as the attorney for CPS, that could be different.
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You have all of these people that don't want to take turns speaking so that the court reporter can get it all down.
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No question that a lot of times we've got to be yelled at by the court reporter so she or he can get a clear record, but one particular one did it so often about everything at all or anybody else that happened to walk in.
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And even if you're conferencing a case in other words, you're not talking about the weather, but you're sitting next to your partner and you're like I think this is the next thing that has to go up here She'll shush you for that where you've got to be able to talk to your colleague.
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So we didn't love her because when she came in, because and we referred to her as the shusher I think that was the worst situation we ever had with respect to or me.
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I mean I just I was very lucky and always had wonderful court personnel, and I'm not making that up, I'm not blowing smoke.
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I truly have enjoyed the people that I work with in the courtrooms for the most part.
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Occasionally there were court officers that I was like, oh okay, I got to deal with this for a few weeks or whatever, but for the most part, certainly all the court reporters.
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I other than the shusher I was like happy to see them when I had not seen them for a while.
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And of course I think I told you my friend Jamie got transferred out of family court.
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She wanted to, and then at some point I ended up leaving family court for a while, still at the county attorney, and I had to go to a different courthouse to and I handled some civil matters and the very first civil case that I tried because I'd always tried family court or criminal cases was a case against the county, specifically against community college.
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So we represented the college.
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Therefore, because we're the county and it was, I was scared because it was a totally different kind of trial different jury, different everything, different judge, different courtroom, had no idea who was going to you know, be doing it.
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And in walked Jamie.
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I had never been so happy in my life because I was very nervous, like I'm going to do things wrong.
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The rules of evidence are different, I don't know who's going to be here.
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I'm going to sound like a complete idiot.
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And then my friend who has listened to me for years and family court is the one that comes in and goes what are you doing here?
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And I'm like, oh my God, are you on this trial?
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And she said, yes, so it was wonderful.
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So the first case that I a civil case, that I ever went all the way through trial, I got to do with my friend being a court reporter and it was wonderful and I won, so that was great.
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And she got to give me pep talks the whole time and make sure my skirt was straight and all.
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It helps to have your friends with you if you can have it, so that was wonderful.
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That's so nice and that's the great thing about working in court is like you get to see the same faces again and build those relationships, Whereas in freelance you don't really get that opportunity as much.
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Yeah.
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Not only that, but you made me realize that when I was listening to your podcast about the last attorney that you just interviewed, when she was talking a lot about her experiences with court reporters, I realized they were all during what we refer to in New York as EBT's other states called depositions totally different experience, so I only did that.
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During that time I did civil cases and that's a completely different experience with everything, since you're so alone with one other lawyer, one other litigant and that court reporter.
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Yeah, yeah, there's no one else there to kind of regulate things and mediate.
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Yeah, I found that very interesting when you were talking about you know what you should be required to do, or if you should say anything or who should take the lead, because it's such a different environment than the court.
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Yep, yeah.
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So as court reporters I mean as officers of the court we are actually like we do have to kind of make sure everything is under control and take the lead.
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We're also there as a non-biased, non-for a purpose, so so I guess, yeah, that that kind of covers how you talked about.
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You know your working relationships with key court personnel, the court reporter and the clerk.
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You built that relationship, you became friends beyond the courtroom with several of them.
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Yeah, I mean, I guess that's the thing you know.
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A lot of attorneys will form relationships with different people in in the courts or whatever, when you're working there every day.
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You know, I think your rules aren't so defined in terms of you know what your job is, but in terms of friendships and these are the same people that you would be in an office with.
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I mean, that was my office, was the courtroom every day, so it wasn't promising at all.
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And I guess it's like.
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It's like, is that even like allowed?
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But yeah, because you're, because you're there every day, and that's like your, your home, and I'm not saying there wasn't anything like.
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I mean, of course, like I said, with there's home court advantage.
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I mean, of course, if someone's coming in and they're not there every day, they're not going to know everybody the same.
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But that's just talking about the fact that you come in and you say hello and good morning and you may be friends, but everybody's still doing their job for professionally and everybody else.
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I mean it didn't.
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It's not like the court reporter doesn't write down anything the other attorney says just because they're the other attorney.
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You know, it's just, it's just a matter of coming in and you know this from family court.
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The attorneys tend to be the same attorney.
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So even though for the most part you sometimes get someone who never came in, so even though I'm there all day, you know nine to five in the courtroom, the other attorneys that handle those kinds of cases.
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They're regulars, so they may not be there that entire time, but oftentimes they're in there every day, or almost every day anyway.
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Yeah, yeah, no, it's nice.
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It's nice to hear that I mean what's not appropriate would be, for some reason, if you change the record to help them, you would not do that.
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But in terms of just as far as who you work with every day, that's the courtroom you're in and I don't think that you have to be able to have a good working relationship with people and as far as I know, there's some lawyers that this clerk doesn't help me.
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I don't like this clerk and that clerk may not like that attorney and they may have an issue, but it really comes down to the judge.
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So that's it.
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Yeah, Okay, so is Jamie, the court reporter that remember at that lunch we talked about the transcript that the readback right the court reporter was able to read back.
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No, no, what I was talking to you about was it was a course of sexual conduct.
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So between the ages of four and seven were the allegations.
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He was convicted and I had to basically have that trial, a felony jury trial, to prove that he did those things to her.
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I talked to you about how the little girl testified and it was very difficult.
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I had to keep her on the stand, asking her about her experience, what happened from the time that she could remember at four.
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And it was very difficult for everybody.
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It was difficult for the jury, it was difficult for the defense attorney.
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We were in there, it was done.
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But then there was cross-examination seven.